Your not going through as much as it seems. Compared to what you shall receive from all your hard work.
It’s not all for nothing. Whatever you and I have had to suffer on Earth, whether it is with others, or conditions that caused physical suffering. The reward of such due diligence in your walk of faith shall be answered by the Lord.
All we need to do is hold on to the never, ever changing hand of the Almighty. Keep our heads in times of trouble, and turn off our worrying and start using the gift of discernment.
When we are going through hardship, we assume that the Lord leaves us because it might be some type of disciplinary action assigned to correct our nature, but God doesn’t abandon us because He disciplines us. He covers us, so that we aren’t vulnerable to the attack of the enenlmy because of our disobedience.
Just know, what ever you deal with, He has given you the ability to endure as good soldiers. We come out on the winning end of life and enter into the rest promised to us through the Word of the Lord our God.